So I know a lot of girls that don’t get along with their boyfriends family, but that’s not my case. My boyfriend is perfect as he is, the fact that his family is completely amazing is just a huge plus. They are all super nice to me and I feel comfortable being myself around them, yes I do get a little shy sometimes but who doesn’t. This post though is on a significant person in my boyfriends family- his little sister. She has seriously become good friend of mine. I can talk to her about anything, and I mean anything. Maybe the bond we have isn’t normal to other people but to me it is and it’s pretty darn cool, I hope she feels the same too haha. She’s like another little sister to me…except she’s not annoying like my sister and she’s shorter and lighter haha. I like how she trusts me enough to talk to me about her problems and I hope that whatever advice I give her helps because I don’t like knowing she’s sad I want her to be happy and feel good about herself because she is a wonderful person. Point is, I’ve gotten close to her and well I feel really thankful for that. Specially because I hear stories about my friends not liking their boyfriends moms or sisters. I think I’m one of the lucky girls that finds a great guy who happens to come with a great loving family as a bonus and well I’m just very grateful for that. ❤️
Last night my boyfriends sister was really upset and was telling my that she wasn’t good enough for some guy in her class because she’s not pretty. It made me really upset and that was all I could think of last night so I wrote her the story of what I felt was the lowest point in my life when I lost all my confidence and I thought I was ugly and noone was ever gunna like me. I told her that because we all have that phase where we feel not good enough, and weather you were always like that, or someone made you feel that way like in my case its just another negative thought in you that you have to let go of and realize the beautiful things that surround you and make you the amazing person you are. Its crazy how much she reminds me of me sometimes, and I’m glad I can relate to her. I just hope that my story somehow helped and that she realizes how beautiful she really is. (:
It's happened again...if the past two times count.
I saw my boyfriend today for the first time in almost a week. I know it doesn’t sound like a long time but to me it felt like an eternity. I haven’t been able to stop smiling since I got home. I can’t believe how happy he makes me. I had lost hope in ever loving someone again but this guy really tore down my walls and made me fall head over heals for him. This time I am not scared. I am giving this relationship all I have because I trust him and know he will never lie to me or hurt me. The third time might be the charm (I really hope it is) and I am soo ready for it!
When I say nothing is wrong then don’t question me. When you question me I start to think about things and just get worked up about it and it just pisses me off! If I say its nothing is wrong then nothing is wrong or I don’t wanna fucking talk about it!
Holidays are not the same. My family isnt united like it used to be. My mom doesn’t care what we do anymore. My cousins and I grew apart some cant even look at me and idk why. Everyone’s going thier separate ways I guess this is just part of growing up.
It irritates me when I see post about people and their bf or gf and they have just started dating and they say they love each other. I mean cool for you if it’s really love, but seriously unless you have known the person for a long time I don’t believe it. It took me 6 months to tell my bf I loved him. To me that is a perfect amount out time considering that I was heartbroken twice and completely lost hope for finding someone to love and love me back. We talked for 6 month before we started dating so I knew a lot about him already. Sure people still believe in love at first sight and others fall in love in just a matter of days but it’s hard to really believe in all that stuff in today’s society. I am lucky I have found the perfect guy who I genuinely love and makes me happy it’s something that everyone should have, specially if it’s real.